Just like laughter, crying as a human activity is one that does not happen without a cause, different categories of human beings cry for different reasons, infants cry when they have not been breast fed, little children cry when their parents fail to give them what they want at a particular point in time, adolescents and youths also cry when they fail to achieve a particular feat, say an examination and finally, adults cry for reasons such as bereavements, heartbreaks, financial burdens etc.
But guess what? it is absolutely OK for one to cry as much he/she desires, but what's not OK is to cry hopelessly. When you fail at something, the only logical thing to do is to try again giving it your best shot that time around, that is a better option to crying hopelessly because hopelessness will not do any good either. People try giving love a chance but instead of being loved and respected, they end up unloved and sometimes taken advantage of. That is enough reason to cry anyway but not reasonable enough to harden their hearts and end up bitter persons.
Believe it or not, life will always give you reasons to cry. Since life is not a bed of roses it then means that sometimes it could be a bed of stones, you could be happy today and tomorrow you're sad, you could have surplus today and then tomorrow you won't even have enough to eat. One thing we should always learn to do is to make lemonades out of the lemons that life might present to us. If at first you don't succeed, go ahead and cry if you must, but when you're done crying, dust yourself off and try again, don't just sit down crying hopelessly putting blames on other people for your misfortunes. You need to get up, take responsibility of your own actions, make amends where necessary, work on yourself to improve your self worth, re-strategise and change the things that probably caused your misery.
It is often said that winners never quit neither does quitters ever win, so if you think of yourself as a winner, why then do you have to quit loving over a heart break?, why do you have to quit trying to succeed because you failed after one or two trials? You don't have to kill yourself too over the loss of a loved one because life has to go on.
In your most trying time and in your deepest despair, you might feel down and out and feel down cast but your strength lies in your ability to rise up and stay strong rather than feeling sorry for yourself. It is okay to cry provided you don't cry hopelessly, rise up above your fears and stand tall on your feet so as to take back your happiness once again.
But guess what? it is absolutely OK for one to cry as much he/she desires, but what's not OK is to cry hopelessly. When you fail at something, the only logical thing to do is to try again giving it your best shot that time around, that is a better option to crying hopelessly because hopelessness will not do any good either. People try giving love a chance but instead of being loved and respected, they end up unloved and sometimes taken advantage of. That is enough reason to cry anyway but not reasonable enough to harden their hearts and end up bitter persons.
Believe it or not, life will always give you reasons to cry. Since life is not a bed of roses it then means that sometimes it could be a bed of stones, you could be happy today and tomorrow you're sad, you could have surplus today and then tomorrow you won't even have enough to eat. One thing we should always learn to do is to make lemonades out of the lemons that life might present to us. If at first you don't succeed, go ahead and cry if you must, but when you're done crying, dust yourself off and try again, don't just sit down crying hopelessly putting blames on other people for your misfortunes. You need to get up, take responsibility of your own actions, make amends where necessary, work on yourself to improve your self worth, re-strategise and change the things that probably caused your misery.
It is often said that winners never quit neither does quitters ever win, so if you think of yourself as a winner, why then do you have to quit loving over a heart break?, why do you have to quit trying to succeed because you failed after one or two trials? You don't have to kill yourself too over the loss of a loved one because life has to go on.
In your most trying time and in your deepest despair, you might feel down and out and feel down cast but your strength lies in your ability to rise up and stay strong rather than feeling sorry for yourself. It is okay to cry provided you don't cry hopelessly, rise up above your fears and stand tall on your feet so as to take back your happiness once again.
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